One of the non-fiction books that I recently completed was “You’re Already Amazing” by Holly Gerth. Written for Christian women, it encourages us to accept and apply to our lives that we are the way God made us and that it’s time to let go of the expectations, the over-busyness, and the overly critical ways we treat ourselves.
At the very end, she summarizes her book by saying:
You’re already amazing because God made you, formed you, and lives within you. You’re amazing because you belong to him, because he has a plan for your life, because with him there’s nothing you can’t do.
Her website has interactive tools from the book that can be downloaded.
Other things I enjoyed from her book:
- Appreciate our strengths and accept our weakness, because if we were good at everything, we wouldn’t focus on anything.
- Our goal is not to be perfect nor is it to make everyone happy.
- The skills we use to display our strengths will change with the seasons of our lives.
- God doesn’t compare us to anyone us and neither should we.
- ALL of our emotions are gifts from God.
- God’s journey for our life is different than everyone else’s.
- We need to align our lives with love in the way God created us to be.
In the book, Holly says:
You are not required to please people. You don’t have to meet their expectations. You are a servant with one master. . . If you’re loving God, others, and yourself, then you’re already doing enough. . . You have a purpose no one else has, and how that unfolds will look different for you than for any other woman in your life.
This is hard for women! We feel that we have to keep up with others around us; meet the expectations of our families, friends and employers; and in general, be someone other than who we really are.
It’s a fine line to walk – the need to improve ourselves and wear off our rough edges while accepting our personalities, needs and wants and not letting others diminish or denigrate them. For example, my need for solitude replenishes me mentally, emotionally and physically. If I’m not careful though, it can also be an excuse to avoid people and situations and not get things done.
I highly recommend the book and the exercises at the end of each chapter plus the end of the book. It’s a welcome encouragement to be ourselves and see our lives as Jesus intended them to be.