This week’s theme for Six Word Friday is “grow” – as in my mantra lately:
Grow a good mood by choice.
I’m having an above average number of grumpy days lately. It’s for many reasons, but the worst one is “just because”. Why am I in a bad mood? Because. Am I achy? Tired? Hungry? Frustrated? Nope. Just because. Certainly those things contribute, but lately it seems like I’m just grumpy for no particular reason.
I’ve been working on recognizing this and changing it as an act of my will. It’s not easy and it’s sure not fun, but I’m much more pleasant to be around and if I smile enough, it does improve my mood.
A few weeks back, an acquaintance at work commented that I couldn’t possibly be in such a good mood all the time. I laughed and said no, it was a choice. I was surprised that she was surprised by my answer. I find being in a cheerier mood helps me feel better, enjoy my life more, and has a direct impact on everyone around me. I can make people happier just by a few minutes of interaction (this is where I wrote about this last year).
So the next time you feel grumpy, ask yourself – is this what I want? Or do I want to improve my mood and enjoy my day? Or do I choose to grow a good mood?
Sometimes a great way to improve a bad mood is a change of scenery, a pleasure in an unexpected place. Last Saturday, my favorite boy toy and I went antiquing in Williamsburg. We didn’t find much and probably won’t spend time doing it again, but in the course of our day, we found La Petite Tea inside the Williamsburg Antique Mall. It’s not very big – probably only four tables – but it was cute and the food was excellent.
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I am a backyard adventurer, philosopher and observer, recording my life in journals and photographs. Visit my blog at www.livingtheseasons.com or write me at dogear6 [at] gmail [dot] com.